HAPPINESS

Happiness varies from individual to individual.
For the kids,happiness lies in toys.
For a sportsman,happiness lies in his sport.
For a husband,happiness is being with his wife.
For a saint,happines lies in the worships.
For a reader,happiness lies in books.
For a wanderer,happiness means the paths.
For an actor,happiness lies in acting.
For a bird,happiness is flying high.
For a poor child,happiness is in the games he play with his friends.
For an unemployed, happiness is getting a job.
For a scientist,happiness is In his discoveries.
For a model, happiness is walking on the ramp.
For a happy person,happiness is being surrounded.
And for a sad person,happiness lies in loneliness.
HAPPINESS IS A STATE OF MIND,HAPPINESS HAPPENS WHEN YOU'RE HAPPY.
THE DIFFERENCE EXISTS DUE TO EXISTENCE OF INDEPENDENT THOUGHTS.
BE HAPPY
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MY FANTASY DREAMS

What about a place like London
perfect for my shopping stuff,
And what about the Switzerland diaries
perfect for some cold and cough.


Mud islands will be a good choice
for spending my vacations with myself,
And what about the Goa beaches
relaxing me at midnight twelve.


Long drives will drive me crazy
if they happen in Europe or Spain,
Paragliding? Not a bad idea
unless it gives some pain.


Mexico and Chicago
will make me more mature,
And nature of Australia
will take me back to the shore.


I would love to freeze in Austria
and eat a bunch of ice creams,
This is what I wish to do
These are my fantasy dreams.

THE MATERIALISTIC WORLD

First of all I apologise. I haven't written on my blog for a very long time.

"MATERIALISTIC"  refers to the world of name and fame. A world where we live or want to live. But the truth is that this world is mortal. We don't even have a clue of when it may get vanished. 

Also, not only the name and the fame,but we are MATERIALISTIC too. We too are mortal. And then also we have ego,attitude and jealousy. I'll keep just one point here and you'll change your opinion: 

SUPPOSE YOU LIVE IN SHALIMAR GARDEN. SO THINK HOW SMALL YOU ARE IN COMPARISON TO SHALIMAR GARDEN. THEN WE SEE THAT IT IS IN GHAZIABAD WHICH MAKES YOU EVEN SMALLER. IN THE SAME WAY THERE GOES A SERIES LIKE-

YOU》SHALIMAR GARDEN》GHAZIABAD》UTTAR PRADESH》INDIA》ASIA》EARTH》SOLAR SYSTEM》GALAXY. 

BY this we may conclude that we stand no where in this world full of different species. But then also we think we hold an importance.

We give reasons to others and of course a chance to say ,'YOU HAVE AN ATTITUDE PROBLEM'. Is this we were born for? No! We are born to live a happy life and the supreme entity who made us.

There's a saying," THE DAY WE GET TO KNOW TWO THINGS,WE'LL BE A PERFECT HUMAN. THESE ARE- 

* WHO ARE WE ON PLANET EARTH?

*WHY ARE WE BORN AS HUMAN BEINGS?

I hope by this small effort I made today, I'm able to change your opinion.

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PROCRASTINATION

A topic suggested by SRISHTI SAPRA.
Procrastination is delaying things or assigned tasks for tomorrow. It actually takes place until the last minute of the given deadline.


We procrastinate a lot. May it be our studies,some work given by our parents,homework, office work which was to be completed, and many more things. It's like our heart telling us to relax for now as we've got plenty of time for the completion of the task. But we are not aware about the fact that we've got a limited life with deadlines at every minute. Who knows about his/her death. All we need to do is complete the given work in the given time. Now here I'm using "in time" not "on time". This is what my school director tells us that 'in time' means in the given period of time whereas 'on time' means at the very last moment.


Procrastination is something we all do,at least most of us. But in our words its like first we calculate the time left till our deadline and then make plans to complete it at the last moment. One of the best example for this that everyone of us had gone through is-
When a teacher gives us homework and tells us to show it the next day,we all calculate the number of periods we've got before her period and if we've got the lunch break too. And then thinking whether we would be able to complete the homework in those periods.


Procrastination is like we fighting with our enemies in a video game( in real-we fighting with the time we are wasting). But once we start to procrastinate, it becomes our habbit. We then keep on delaying things. For me, when I watch a video on YouTube and find many more interesting videos through it, procrastination starts. Not ony this, at night when I'm watching my favourite tv shows I delay my sleep. Some of my friends even procrastinate their plans just for their studies. Well this depends on the interests of the person.


But pls don't procrastinate reading my blogs😁
Feel free to comment.
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SELF CONFIDENCE

Topic suggested by ABHISHEK TANWAR.


CONFIDENCE IS THE GROOMING SOURCE,
WHICH MAKES YOU STRONGER EVEN MORE.
WITH SYMPTOMS OF BEAUTY IN THE CORE,
THAT BREAKS BAD ATTITUDE ON THE FLOOR.
SELF-CONFIDENCE THE GREATEST JEWEL,
SHOULD BE THE ONE WHERE WE MUST DWELL.
FOR BEING WHAT WE'RE BORN TO BE,
LET THIS CONFIDENCE SET US FREE.
#beyou
#beconfident
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POEM-"SHE-THE LADY OF HONOUR"( PART 1)

Here's a poem for all those girls who live in a society filled with narrow minds. Girls who are far away from the real world.

She is pure like the oceans,
But disturbed by the humans.
To her father she is no one,
for him, lovable is his son.



The dark room is her world,
On a hard bed at night she twirls.
With sleepless nights and thoughts in mind,
She's regrets to be a girl.



Not allowed to study,
Not allowed to smile.
Cant she get all that love,
Even for a while?



She's the one who loves you more,
Even more than your son.
Without her this beautiful world,
Will burn down like a sun.

DON'T FORGET TO SEE THE NEXT PART RIGHT HERE 👉





2nd part-



http://mehak07.blogspot.in/2017/07/she-last-of-honour-part-2.html
 

"SHE-THE LAST OF HONOUR" (PART 2)

She cries!
With tears in her eyes.
She's left with those scars,
Which kept her asleep all night.

DISCRIMINATION!
A word of honour for some.
Blindfolds all the people,
enabling them to come.

Hail Mary! To you I pray,
Bless these evils with the brain.
Let them know the holy soul,
To whom they act like prey.

There are millions of people in this world,
But like her is none.
For no one will stay with you,
Like how for life she does!


Sir. Rajeev Sharma(my English teacher) is my inspiration for writing such stuff.
Feel free to comment.
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MAA

The most beautiful topic given by SAMDISHA CHITKARA.
"MAA,AMA,AYI,MUMMA,MOM" we call her by thousands of names but the love for her and the fear to lose her is the same for all.
She's the one who knows her child better than the father coz she lives 9 extra months with the baby in her uterus. I remember when I had a fight with my mom, I said-'mumma ap pls itni tension Ni Kia kro' and she just smiled and said Ki jb tum khud maa banoge tbi smjhoge. So to understand a mother's feelings is like the fishes trying to fly. She loves you and at the same time, scolds you as well. It's like having mixed emotions at the same time. Have you ever noticed these mixed expressions on you mother's face when you come back home very late! I have. I remember when I was late from my tuitions and had no phone,on reaching back home I found my mother tensed and angry at the same time.
I've heard someone saying," bhagwaan har jagah nahi reh skta isliye maa bnayi gyi".
Which means maa ko bhagwaan ka darja dia Gaya hai. But unfortunately aj k log shyd ye bat Bhool Gaye hai.
People have started giving importance to materialistic things more than their mothers. They send their mothers to ashrams for rest of their life giving an excuse that they are too busy with their work or jobs. But they don't realize the fact that their mothers sacrificed their lives for them,so that they could live a happy life without any tensions. And somewhere they expect the same love and sympathy they gave you when you needed it.
We are blessed with mothers but not with the their importance. We are blessed with their love, but not with its importance. We are blessed with their care, but not with its importance. Which means we are blessed with the great soul but not with the thinking which tells us its importance and that is the only reason we take her love and care for granted.
Our generation thinks that our parents don't understand us, they keep on yelling at times for what is wrong and what is not but for us we have a huge brain that denies to except the fact that our parents may have gone through the same situations and thus have a solution to it.
We just need to love our mothers for their support they gave us in every situation.
Let us take a pledge today that no matter where we are today or will be tomorrow, we'll always treat our mothers in the way they need to be treated. We'll respect them, give them dozens of love and yes will never take our step back from our responsibilities towards our mothers.
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THE OKAYS'

Do you find any gestures when anyone texts you with an -"ok"?No, right?
But at times there are some gestures hidden in that single ok.
I know I may be sounding a little awkward but that's what I find most of the times I talk to my friends.
Sometimes these 'Okays' are filled with emotions, emotions reflecting dullness or say silence.A silence which itself is screaming about the writer's feelings. Doesn't it happens with you that the person you are talking to says you something for which you just don't have any 'wordly' reply. Yes you want to speak out your heart but at times you can't. You can't just write the type of emotion climbing up high in your heart
With me it happens alot. There are things to say, memories to relive,heart which is pumping hard to tell that person that yes if you are missing me I'm missing you too [It happens with me when I actually miss Meghal alot].
So there's no need to go on the words, we just need to understand the emotions hidden in that single "okay".
If you feel the same, feel free to comment.
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A DAY WITH THE ANGELS

GARIMA SAHA,is the one who suggested me this topic;
A DAY WITH THE ANGELS. If I would have been given a day to spend with angels,I would literally try every magic and experience everything to its fullest. I would fly high in the sky,cool the deserts,freeze the water of the waterfalls,rome around with the butterflies,taste the wild fruits,replace the vehicles with horses all around,teleport myself to the extreme mountain points, summing this up I would do every thing my heart says. In real life we can't do everything our minds thinks of, because no one can change the law of nature-"Nature never changes itself for human needs". If it would have changed itself for us,the humans,we have worsened it(more than what we are doing to it today).


The day I seriously meet the angels will be the day I'll enjoy every part of nature. You would laugh but I would change all the seasons and make it one single season-"winters" coz I just love winters. Also I would live in the trees to know about the insects living there.

What would you do if you meet angela someday?
Comment down your wishes.
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LIFE PART II

Back to this topic,the last blog was left incomplete.
In the previous blog "life"(http://mehak07.blogspot.in/2017/06/life.html )I told you the importance of human life and human body. But today let us try to figure out things from a different angle. As I told you earlier that I would love to travel the world, each and every part; this is because we've blessed with this human life only once in 84 lakh of other births as other species. So we actually need to live every moment of this beautiful life. Many people just complain continuously about the things they aren't blessed with but what I believe is that we should compare ourselves with those who've got less compared to us. So that we get to know that every person living on this planet earth is facing some problem.


Life is matter of ups and downs. No person can remain happy for his entire life coz "CHANGE IS THE LAW OF NATURE". If today we are happy, we may face any trouble the next day.


People take this life for granted. They suicide,harm themselves or even let their lives face risk.


By this blog I seriously want you to write your experiences or troubles you've faced by which you understood the importance of life. Feel free to comment ❤
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MEHAK KATHURIA

The strangest topic 😂. Mehak kathuria given by GARIMA KHANNA.
So today let me reveal myself😁

BIO-
Name:Mehak Kathuria
Class:12th
Stream:Commerce
Age:17


HOBBIES -
I love singing,I love dancing but more than that,I love observing.
I just don't know why I have a habit of observing things minutely. One day even my English teacher told me- Mehak you notice alot girl.😂


LIKES AND DISLIKES-
I love ice creams and kulfi😍 is just so yum. I hate making new friends (as of now) coz the old ones(some) are so dam headache😂.
TBH,I would actually like to tell the people I really love by heart first time 😁(Dil tham k baithe):MUMMA,BHAI,MEGHAL,SHANTANU,RAHUL AIRI,SAMIKSHA,PUSHPAK,PRATHIBA,NEHA MAM(MY ECONOMICS TEACHER),SHRI SIR(MY ACCOUNTS TEACHER).
These people are the true souls. They are just so amazing.
And yes I hate one of the status my friend uses a lot-"HATERS GONNA HATE" like obviously they arr😂


OK so now let me tell you about my ultimate goal😍I want to travel to every big country of this world 🙈 may it be America or Antarctica,Dubai or Denmark, Either alone or with that "sapno k raja"😂 in my coming future 😍


Coming to my interests-I love travelling😍 and yes I love adventures and making memories that lasts long😘 Although I'm not a good dancer but I love dancing and yessss I love instruments 😍😍 the most.


CONCLUSION:
MEHAK,is a girl with big dreams but no hard work. She's so lazy,lazier than an old plumpy man.She's a girl who believes in practicality. She doesn't need much of friends but when someone gets too close to her, she'll never want to lose 'em. Yes,she may get rude at times but if loves someone by heart, can do anything for that person. Its Kinda wierd that how she's so much into music that studying while listen music is the easiest task for her.Yes,she knows her flaws,but never under estimates herself.She may get offended at times but otherwise loves talking non stop.
Most of her cutest friends are younger than her.




now, being in 12th she's so much confused about her future even after knowing the fact that nirankar is the one who's going to bless her with all she deserves.

HYPOCRITES

Hypocrites!Well, one of the toughest topics given by my best friend - Shantanu.


Its a difficult task to present such people in your writings.




Firstly I would actually like to share one of my thoughts on hypocrisy. Whenever I thought upon this topic, my mind always told me that each and every person in this world is a hypocrite(including me). People would deny this but this is the fact.
Hypocrisy means double facing right? And all of us have a lot of faces.
For example,


We might be innocent with our parents, open with our friends,naughty with cousins,sincere with teachers. Concluding this, we actually have so many faces.


Mr.Amitabh Bachchan,in one of his exclusive interviews, in early 90's said,"No matter how good a person is, there exists a face of him which is left unseen."
This is what I believe. I've observed this in me myself tbh. I'm different with every person I'm friends with. With some I may just have gossips with, with some I'm like an idiot, for some I may be serious but there are some I can talk everything about.


But this isn't our fault it's just our nature -"human nature". We can't be the same with everyone.


Now let us come to the main point. Hypocrisy is the contrivance of a false appearance of virtue. When I was in 9th I got the first real life experience of people being hypocrites when one of my friends was so good to me, after a couple of weeks our mutual friend told me all the rubbish she told about me and all my secrets being disclosed to our classmates. Yes,I felt bad but the thing I learned at that point of time was that people are just so fake and so jealous of your success or say craziness among the people for you that they come to you, be friends with you and destroy you into those small pieces which can't be joined together.


See, society is not only made up of good people (to which everyone agrees). And so many people with different ideologies means so many opinions of different people. You never know how the person besides you is judging you. Even psychology may fail when it comes to brain hackers. People may tell you good 'bout you but no one knows the truth.


Well, there's nothing predictable about the humans. So we should not waste our time in such things.
The suggester of this topic also told me:- Mehak bolne vale sab Aenge , tu apne kam p dhyan de.
Thank you for your support Shantanu ❤


So guys. Never under estimate yourself. I know I'm a legend so there's no need of proving it.
zindagi ek hai khul k jio😘
much love to you guys.
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LIFE

KHUSHI GAUTAM,I thank you for suggesting me this topic.
You said-'life is the deepest topic'.
Yes,it is. Life is said to be the most precious gift by god.


A saint told the importance of life as:
"A human is the only specie which can understand things,the one who have the ability to observe minutely."
I was reading a book of Mr.Robin which said that there are only two days which should matter to a human:
1.The day when you were born.
2.The day you understand why?
Everyone knows their date of birth but only some are aware of the answer to the second question.
After 8,84,000 births as insects or animals we get one human birth.
My very first post on this blog revealed the gratitude we should have towards the lord. So aren't we thankful to the lord for this human body as well.
No one on this planet knows their last day,do you?
Then why are we taking this human life for granted. Are we friends with Yamraj? No,we ain't. Then why are we treating this body like something which belongs to us.


We all live in our homes which actually will never remain forever, being mortal. And some of us are just living in these homes on rent.
Same is the case with our bodies. A human body is just a dummy made up of the five elements:VAYU,JEEV,AAKASH,AGNI,JAL.
It ultimately belongs to the almighty and we are just using this body as on rent.
Also,I would like to clear down one more thing - SUICIDE is strictly the insult of the almighy. We have no right to hurt this body as this is just a home provided by the lord to our souls.
yes, your opinions may differ. So come let us share our lives here.
Comment down your opinions on life and lets accept the importance of life.
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#love_your_bodies

SOCIETY'S BEHAVIOUR TOWARDS CLOTHING OF GIRLS

First of all a big thanks
to Vanshika and Upasna who suggested me to write upon this topic.❤




CLOTHING.
Isn't it interesting how people are always concerned about the clothes of a girl. A girl wearing a blouse which actually exposes all of her back in a saree is better than a top which exposes the same back.
Yes, would be your answer
but do we actually take a step
to protect our female counterpart,
rarely someone.

Aranya Johar, who's been working for women empowerment is just 18 but is improving the society just by letting the
people see a girl by her way.

A girl is made to wear frocks, shots,etc when she's small. Then why does she's stopped from wearing it while her teenage dreams? The parents are the same,the society is the Same, what changes is the thinking towards that same girl.

After all,now she's grown up right.

Trust me!Girls are the best gifts of god. We just need a sense of realisation.

The subject of empowerment

of women has been becoming a burning issue all over the world including India since last few decades.

A source says-"What exists for men is demanded by women?

They have demanded equality with men in matters of education, employment, inheritance, marriage, politics and recently in the field of religion also to serve as cleric (in Hinduism and Islam). Women wants to have for themselves the same strategies of change which menfolk have had over the centuries such as equal pay for equal work. "

A girl is an epitome of love and respect,

and thus she has the full authority to be

respected

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BEST FRIENDS

BEST FRIENDS!
Well, for me its just a word now.
I've faced so many situations in just 5 years that the word "best friend" is just something imaginary. But yes,best friends does exist. They are the people who are ready to sacrifice every thing for you, who actually feel sorry for you in your tough times instead of mocking at you.
I also have such a friend but I would rather call her my sister, sister by soul.
She's Meghal, the one who knows me for last 12 years.
We haven't met since 8 years but yes we'll surely meet someday and I'll let her know my love for her.
#majormissing
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OPINIONS

What are opinions? Our thoughts??
Yes,they are our thoughts but today not exactly "our” thoughts!
I think today opinion is something we get influenced by. And that "something" are the thoughts of may be our friends,our family,our neighbours,etc.
Let us take an example, You know me as a person.Maybe in your opinion I'm a calm person with etiquettes but as soon as someone discloses his opinion about me to you, his opinion will become your opinion. Concluding this,you are left with none of your own opinions. Isn't that interesting ?How humans get influenced so easily?
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THE FEELING OF GRATITUDE

I was reading a book which said that,"We are so passionate about our footwear ,but what about those who don't even have feet”.Isn't it our duty to thank the lord for what we are today,for every happiness we are blessed with. We just keep on regretting or complaining for things we don't have. Yes,I know very well it's the human nature but can't we even try?
Think on it once so that we may become thankful for everything the almighty is blessing us with.
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